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ISO top training from experienced man/men in the leather commuity (Seattle)

Hi,
I'm a young, hansome cub-type queer guy, friendly, energetic, and down to earth. I'm a top seeking training from other experienced tops in the BDSM arts in Seattle. I have been playing for about 6 years, figuring most of this stuff out on my own. I have skills and would not per se consider myself a novice, but I think I would greatly benefit from instruction and mentoreship from older, experienced folks with a place in the leather community. I'm looking for more training the art of single tail, flogging, needle play, anal fisting and caning. I aspire to be the best top I can be. In exchange for training, I will perform house duties: cleaning and conditioning leathers, housework, cooking, etc. I used to work for a contractor, so I also have some home improvement skills if needed. I play safe and sane, and am very mature. I'm not a flake, drama maker or gossip queen. I am a hard worker and dedicated student. I am moving to Seattle in a few weeks from across the country, so I have no idea how best to get this proposal out to the BDSM community there. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated! If you can think of any other place I should post this request, please let me know. email me @ tinredboi@yahoo.com

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pumping my manjunk

Does anyone pump? Pump their tranny cock that is. No…you perv, I mean with a machine, let me elaborate, not a machine that vibrates, but one that utilizes suction to engorge the cock? I just made a DIY pump using a fat marinade syringe that I cut the top off of. Once I made it I realized I didn’t know how to use it, besides, yaknow, putting it on my cock and pumping. How long do I hold it on my cock? How much suction is too much? Do I pump it in multiple successions? How many times a day/week should I pump? If you pump or know someone who does, please get back to me. You can respond here, or if you prefer a more private venue, my email is tinredboi@yahoo.com. Hope to hear from someone SOON, I just can’t wait to use it (correctly).
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Screwup: Pins & Needles, play piercing, 4/3, SF, CA

screwup: BDSM for trans people, genderqueers and their friends, presents...

Pins & Needles - Play Piercing, revisited!

Friday, April 13, 2007 from 7:00 to 9:30 PM
New College of California in San Francisco, Room 22 (2nd Floor), 766 Valencia Street (near 18th Street), San Francisco

Come learn the art of play piercing :) We'll be covering some basic and advanced techniques, including threads, corsets and pulls.

This is a hands-on workshop! A limited amount of needles, alcohol wipes, gloves and sharps containers will be available, but you're strongly encouraged to bring your own.

screwup is for trans people, genderqueers and our friends. This event is open to all genders and will be held in Room 22 at the New College of California. Folks sometimes go out for coffee or food afterwards, so come prepared...

$0-5 donation will be accepted to cover the cost of supplies and flyers. No one turned away. The New College of California is wheelchair accessible and has gender-neutral bathrooms!

Spread the word by downloading, printing, and distributing flyers.

Please contact screwup@screwup.info if you'd like us to arrange for an ASL interpreter, to get involved, make suggestions or with any other requests.

Directions to the New College of California

The MUNI BUS LINES 14, 22, 26, 33, and 49 all run within a few blocks of the New College of California, many run within 1 block. Also, BART runs within 3 blocks (exit at 16th and Mission Streets in SF).

Please use public transportation - parking near the New College of California is not easy.

If you do drive, please be considerate of the New College of California's neighbors and do not block driveways or park in blue or white zones.
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East Bay Screwup munch, 4/1, Berkeley, CA

Come one, come all to the first East Bay Screwup munch!

When: Next Sunday, April 1, from 1:30 'till we're through...

Where: Au Coquelet, 2000 University Ave. at Milvia Street in Berkeley (510) 845-0433, only four blocks from the downtown Berkeley BART, and a quick drive from the University exit off of the 80/580 freeway.

Who: anyone who is interested or who participates in BDSM and is trans/queer/genderqueer/friend of same.

What: Informal gathering to meet and converse with kinky folks from around the area. Oh, and some of us will be eating;-)

We will likely snag a good sized table in the back, and will figure out some was of creating visibility TBA.

Parking can be a bit annoying, but hopefully not too bad on a Sunday. Come on out, and bring a friend!
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Screwup: Vaginal and Anal Fisting, 3/9, SF,CA

screwup: BDSM for trans people, genderqueers and their friends, presents..

Vaginal and Anal Fisting - The Basics!Friday, March 9, 2007 from 7:00 to 9:30 PM

New College of California in San Francisco, Room 22 (2nd Floor),
766 Valencia Street (near 18th Street), San Francisco

Ever wondered what it would be like to have your hand inside
another person? Or perhaps you have experience with one type of fisting
and not the other? This workshop will cover the basics you need to know
to get started. We will also cover the in's and out's of safety, what
not to do, special techniques, positions, and aftercare.

screwup is for trans people, genderqueers and our friends. This
event is open to all genders and will be held in Room 22 at the New
College of California. Folks sometimes go out for coffee or food
afterwards, so come prepared...

$0-5 donation will be accepted to cover the cost of supplies and
flyers. No one turned away. The New College of California is wheelchair
accessible and has gender-neutral bathrooms!


Spread the word by downloading, printing, and distributing flyers found
at www.screwup.info or www.screwup.tribe.net


Please contact screwup@screwup.info if you'd like us to arrange for
an ASL interpreter, to get involved, make suggestions or with any other
requests.

Directions to the New College of California
The MUNI BUS LINES 14, 22, 26, 33, and 49 all run within a few
blocks of the New College of California, many run within 1 block. Also,
BART runs within 3 blocks (exit at 16th and Mission Streets in SF).
Please use public transportation - parking near the New College of California is not easy.
If you do drive, please be considerate of the New College of
California's neighbors and do not block driveways or park in blue or
white zones.
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Screwup:GenderQueer Bondage, SF, CA, 2/25, 7-9:30pm

Special time and date


screwup: BDSM for transgenders, genderqueers and their friends, presents...

GenderQueer Bondage: Rope for People “Between” !

by Lee “Bridgett” Harrington

Sunday, February 25, 2007, from 7:00 to 9:30 PM
Femina Potens, 465 South Van Ness Avenue (at 16th Street), San Francisco

Have you ever struggled with the "how" of putting a crotch rope on a woman with a little something extra? Tried tying up a transman who wanted chest bondage that didn’t make him look like a girl? Perhaps you just want to explore some hot ways to tie up your lovers to make them feel androgynous and exposed? Then this class is for you. We’ll be exploring crotch ropes and strap-on harnesses, alternative forms of chest and torso bondage (to emphasize and deemphasize curves), and looking at a few other ties that can make your partner feel emphasized into whatever gender or otherness we see ourselves as. Bring two or more pieces of rope, 25-30 feet in length, for hands-on fun and exploration in this class for “the rest of us”

Lee “Bridgett” Harrington is an eclectic performance artist, artist, model, spiritual and erotic educator, gender radical and author of "Shibari You Can Use: Japanese Rope Bondage and Erotic Macramé". Well known for hir fun and informative approach to education, ze approaches sexuality as yet another art to master, or simply an art to enjoy to its fullest! Ze has been an active part of the international kink and sex positive communities for over 11 years, and hir stories make people laugh while showing you that eroticism can be as serious, sexy, or silly as you make it. Bridgett's writings and photography have appeared in numerous anthologies including "Dark Moon Rising: Pagan BDSM and the Ordeal Path", and hir image has been seen everywhere from PlayBoy TV to the pages of Skin Two Magazine.

screwup is for transgenders, genderqueers, and our friends. This event is open to all genders and will be held at the Femin Potens. Folks sometimes go out for coffee or food afterwards, so come prepared...

$0-5 donation will be accepted to cover the cost of supplies and flyers. No one turned away. The Femina Potens is wheelchair accessible and has gender-neutral bathrooms!

Spread the word by downloading, printing, and distributing flyers.

Please contact screwup@screwup.info if you'd like us to arrange for an ASL interpreter, to get involved, make suggestions or with any other requests.
Directions to Femina Potens

The MUNI BUS LINES 14, 22, 26, 33, and 49 all run within a few blocks of Femina Potens, many run within 1 block. Also, BART runs within 1 block (exit at 16th and Mission Streets in SF).

Please use public transportation - parking near Femina Potens is not easy.

If you do drive, please be considerate of Femina Potens' neighbors and do not block driveways or park in blue or white zones.
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Be part of history! Contribute to the first non-fiction age play anthology!

Call For Submissions:

BIG & little: An Anthology of Age Play Dynamics
Edited by Sassafras Lowrey *
Publisher: Nazca Plains Corporation
Deadline: May 1, 2007
Payment: One Contributor Copy

Age play and those who participate in these dynamics have remained shrouded in misunderstanding despite the exponential growth of the larger leather community. “BIG & little: An Anthology of Age Play Dynamics” will begin to fill the gap in information by being the first non-fiction book to address the complexities and diversity of our community. “BIG & little” will foster dialogue within the growing age play community and provides an opportunity for “little ones” (boys, girls, princesses, etc.) as well as “big ones” (daddies, mommies, uncles, etc.) to talk about this very important and empowering aspect of their lives. It will also serve as an introduction for those unfamiliar with age play dynamics.

All those with age play experience are invited to contribute. Dynamics beyond the Daddy/boy, Mommy/girl norms (such as big sister/little sister, scoutmaster/scout) are particularly encouraged to participate. The anthology will encompass a range of perspectives, varying from individuals living in full-time dynamics to those who engage in occasional age play scenes. “BIG & little” will represent the diverse voices of age play community members across lines of race, class, gender, sexuality, geographic region and biological age.

Possible topics include but are not limited to:
Exploring the cultural misunderstanding as to what age play is (or ISN’T)
Letters to Daddy
Bedtime stories for little girls
Ruminations on the perfect Mommy
Personal accounts of the healing power of age play

Submissions should be between 1,500 and 2,500 words in length and previously unpublished. Submit your piece via e-mail in .doc format to BIGandlittle_anthology@yahoo.com. Multiple submissions per contributor are welcome. Please include a short biography and contact information with your submission. Submissions must be received no later than May 1, 2007; contributors are encouraged to submit early. All pieces published become the sole property of the publisher. Contributors whose work appears in the anthology will receive one free copy of the book.

• Sassafras Lowrey is a writer and artist who contributes regularly to regional and international queer and leather publications. Sassafras has been active in the leather community for several years as a high femme little boy living in a 24/7 Daddy/boy dynamic.

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Screwup this Friday 12/8, SF, CA - Naughty Holidays!

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Naughty holiday fun

Friday,December 8, 2006 from 7:00 to 9:30 PM
New College of California in San Francisco, Room 22 (2nd Floor), 766 Valencia Street (near 18th Street), San Francisco

Come tell Santa if you've been naughty or nice and see if you'll get prezzies or ouchies. Pin an ornament on the human christmas tree. Light a Hanukkah candle on a person or two and play the kinky dreidel game. Participation strongly encouraged and ideas always welcome :)

screwup is for trans, genderqueers, and our friends. This event is open to all genders and will be held in Room 22 at the New College of California. Folks sometimes go out for coffee or food afterwards, so come prepared...

$0-5 donation will be accepted to cover the cost of supplies and flyers. No one turned away. The New College of California is wheelchair accessible and has gender-neutral bathrooms!

Spread the word by downloading, printing, and distributing flyers.

Please contact screwup@screwup.info if you'd like us to arrange for an ASL interpreter, to get involved, make suggestions or with any other requests.
Directions to the New College of California

The MUNI BUS LINES 14, 22, 26, 33, and 49 all run within a few blocks of the New College of California many run within 1 block. Also, BART runs within 3 blocks (exit at 16th and Mission Streets in SF).

Please use public transportation - parking near the New College of California is not easy.

If you do drive, please be considerate of the New College of California' neighbors and do not block driveways or park in blue or white zones.
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Screwup:11/10,SF, Good Scenes Gone Bad

November screwup

screwup: BDSM for trannies, genderqueers and their friends, presents...

What To Do With Scenes Gone Wrong? A solution oriented roundtable and
brainstorm!

Friday, November 10, 2006 from 7:00 to 9:30 PM
New College of California in San Francisco, Room 22 (2nd Floor), 766
Valencia Street (near 18th Street), San Francisco

Ever have a scene that ends in unhappy tears and/or hurt feelings? Ever
start crying and just can't stop? Ever had your partner do so and not know
what to do? Ever taken or given way more pain or humiliation than you should
have? Ever have to take someone to a clinic or the hospital? Ever have to go
yourself? Ever miscommunicated and gotten way too much more than you
bargained for? Ever not negotiated enough and then found yourself in some
bad place? Ever not been right with the aftercare? So have lots and lots of
other folks. Why not come out and talk with others at screwup about scenes
that have gone wrong and what you've done that has worked or not worked,
hear what others have done, and try together to come up with solutions and
hints for common and not so common "scenes gone wrong". Please do not use
this space as one to trash former/current playpartners. This is more to help
us all learn better ways to cope when scenes go wrong and ways to maybe not
have them go wrong in the first place. This is an open discussion with
minimal presentation or demo, unless people decide they think roleplays
would be useful. Bring yerself, yer friends, and yer helpful ideas.

screwup is for trannies, genderqueers, and our friends. It's all DIY (do it
yourself). This event is open to all genders and the not gendered and will
be held in Room 22 at the New College of California. Folks almost always go
out for coffee or food afterwards, so come prepared...everyone is welcome
for the food part, too.

$0-5 donation will be accepted to cover the cost of supplies and flyers. No
one turned away. The New College of California is wheelchair accessible and
has gender-neutral bathrooms!

Please contact screwup@screwup.info if you'd like us to arrange for an ASL
interpreter, to get involved, make suggestions or with any other requests.

please repost whereever you think appropriate.

not in SF, participate on line at http://screwup.tribe.net